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DoubleR Northeast FL
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| 07/17/2012 12:10 PM |
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So Madoc is about 9 1/2 weeks old, we got him at 8 weeks. He is doing really well with not going potty in his crate, the only time he has any accidents in there are during the afternoon, when he's alone for about 4 hours and 15 minutes. He's about 50/50 having accidents during that time frame. I know that it is because he just can't hold it that long yet, and we definitely don't punish him or anything for that. My wife and I are still working on a plan where he doesn't have to be alone for that long, but have no solution yet.
The reason I'm writing, though, is that I would like to get some opinions/suggestions about night time whining. He never has any night time accidents, we take him out religiously on schedule - bed at 9:30, potty at 12:30, 3:30, up at 6:30. Since the first night we got him he hasn't had a single nighttime accident, so i feel we're doing this part pretty well. What I'd like to know is what can be done to stop the whining that he does when he goes back in his crate after a nighttime potty break. The first few nights, we practiced "tough love" as suggested by so many books and training articles so as not to teach him - "Make noise, get out of crate". But after a few nights of over an hour straight of really loud barking/crying/whining we couldn't handle it. If we put him in his crate and lay down in front of it where he can see us, he will go to sleep in about 2-5 minutes. But, if he wakes up after only an hour or so of being in there and starts whining, what can we do? It's not because he has to potty, because he will go right back to sleep if we go lay by him for a minute or three. We don't want to continue the laying down by him until he's asleep thing, because I know we're conditioning him to think "whine = get attention" which is what we don't want. His crate is "denned", covered on the top, back and two sides. Any suggestions other than ticking clock, soft music, warm milk jug?
Thanks so much! Also, new to the forum, so "Hi" everyone.
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smatulewicz Michigan
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| 07/17/2012 12:29 PM |
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Everything I read and everyone I talked to always suggested to completely ignore whining in the crate. But I just felt that it was totally harsh simply because this is a pack animal who has never known nights a lone and is simply whining for reassurance that he/she is not alone. Since we didn't want the crate in our room, we didn't even want her to get used to it being there so we started where it would always be, in the living room. It is, however, next to the couch...so after nighttime outs (I leashed her at her kennel and went directly outside (I didn't even carry because that was too cuddly and I wanted to make no fuss at all), said only the potty command and one lightly spoken "good girl" after she had gone) directly back to kennel. In the early stages, it was rare she would go right back to sleep so I would lay on the couch where she could not see me and there was no chance of any eye contact. If she started up, I simply said "huuuuush" in a drawn out lower tone. I also would do this from another room if she whined in it during the day (if I put her in just for some time during the day to get used to it). I made sure she couldn't see me and there was never any eye contact. So it only served the purpose of her knowing she was not a lone. I may not work for everyone, but it worked for us. I realized I was better off giving up 15 minutes on the couch than an entire hour or more of sleep. Plus, if the whining doesn't stop and he gets TOO worked up he is likely to work himself into having an accident. It will also lessen with age and confidence that he may be alone at that time, but you will come back. |
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tgatto Lake in the Hills, IL
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| 07/17/2012 12:29 PM |
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| Still a baby! Where is his crate at? The reason I ask is that at that age, they are still pretty used to sleeping with the rest of the litter, and get lonely when they aren't with their "family". We put our dog's crate in our bedroom (we actually make night-stands out of the crate). We have never had an issue with our dogs (we only have 1 GSP at a time). I totally understand your thoughts behind this. Tough love is tougher on the owner! You may try moving the crate, if you can, so that the pup is closer - if for nothing else than a good night's sleep, and to preserve your sanity! You can move it back out during the afternoons - that will help transition to the final sleep arangements after the dog has grown more. |
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It is watching the dogs work that I thoroughly enjoy, and love. I could get by with just watching them work - if it weren't for all the training, and the joy they exhibit when they pick-up, and deilver to hand a bird that they pointed, and you shot. - Todd |
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DoubleR Northeast FL
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| 07/17/2012 12:43 PM |
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@smatulewicz - Agreed that it seems totally harsh for a baby puppy who has never slept alone in his life to be expected to sleep alone without making any type of fuss. Also, the wife is definitely a nurturer at heart, and it breaks her heart to hear him cry so much...mine a little, too. When we take him out, it is definitely all business. Thanks for the idea of the verbal reassurance rather than the visible. Will definitely give that a shot tonight and the next couple of nights to see if we can make some progress. Ans we also realize that it is DEFINITELY better to give up 15 minutes rather than an hour and a half of sleep! You say that it will lessen with age...I know every dog is different, but do you have a "guesstimate" on how long this might continue? @tgatto - The crate is beside our bed, so he is within 5 feet of us when he is sleeping at night. We know that he is not used to being alone, and that little bit of comfort knowing we are there works well, and he goes right back to sleep. And you are totally right - tough love is certainly tougher on the owner. I've never been as tired in my life as I am right now. What about the whining when he doesn't need to go potty, just waking up and probably thinking he is alone? I think we will try the verbal "huussshhh" and see if that does the trick. Thanks for the information, we've got a new alternative to try. |
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tgatto Lake in the Hills, IL
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| 07/17/2012 12:55 PM |
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| If he is by your bed, I would definately try a reasuring "Hussssshhhh". How long it goes on depends on the dog, and how consistent you are with him. Could be a day, or two, or it could be months. Doesn't seem the pup is crying because he has to go potty (as you stated), so it is just getting him used to the new sleeping arangements! |
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It is watching the dogs work that I thoroughly enjoy, and love. I could get by with just watching them work - if it weren't for all the training, and the joy they exhibit when they pick-up, and deilver to hand a bird that they pointed, and you shot. - Todd |
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cynthiarose COLORADO
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| 07/17/2012 1:05 PM |
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I think we got fairly lucky with Havoc when we brought him home as he took to the crate quickly and there was minimal whining from day one. We took advice of people here, as well as the breeder and a couple of books. Havoc was held by my boyfriend the entire 2 1/2 hour drive home from the breeder. He was pretty worked up in the car so it was a lot of soothing talking and petting until he fell asleep. When we got home we immediately put him in his crate (door open) with the shirt that Mike was wearing on the way home. We made sure that we stuck around the crate so we'd be there when he woke up. Each time he fell asleep after that for about 3 days we put him back in the crate and left the door open. At nights we did lock the crate and when he started whining we just ignored it unless it carried on for more than 15 minutes (then he would get a soft hush so he knew someone else was there) or if we heard him moving around a lot then we took him out for a potty break. Every day for about a week we took our "dirty" shirts from the day and put them in the crate to keep our scent there. Maybe it was a fluke, but personally think that is what helped him settle down. |
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pixie bee
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| 07/17/2012 1:57 PM |
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| What were your expectations when you brought your puppy home? |
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"Time with my dogs clears my mind, renews my faith, and lets me see the world as it is. My only regret loving dogs as I do, is the misery of their early departure." Robert G. Wehle
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DoubleR Northeast FL
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| 07/17/2012 2:11 PM |
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Well, we expected him to cry and whine the first few nights but figured that, given the correct stimulations (ignore when whining/crying not prompted by need to potty; praise when being quiet) that after a week or so the whining would subside, and he would associate the positive reinforcement with the desired behavior....guess that's what I get for trusting book knowledge. The main reason for my post was not necessarily to stop the whining altogether because I know that, at this early stage in his life, that will likely be his means of communicating "Hey! I need to potty and I don't want to go in my bed!" I just wanted to get some ideas/opinions from others that have maybe had the same issue, and get feedback on what worked and what didn't without conditioning the dog towards negative behaviours, i/e make noise = freedom and play time. I guess we also thought that, given sufficient exercise, he would be more of a sleeper and, even if he would whine and bark, it would subside after a few minutes.
What can I say...this is my first new puppy since I was a little boy, and I want to make sure that I'm doing everything as "right" as I can so as not to stifle any of his inherent natural abilities for the hunt in conjunction with bringing him up to be a great family companion. |
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smatulewicz Michigan
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| 07/17/2012 2:20 PM |
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DoubleR it is hard to anticipate when the whining will stop, as you mentioned, you know they all learn differently. I'm a softy, so since I work full-time seasonally, and then set my own hours during off seasons I am home with Bella all day. I started strong with crating some regardless of being home, but fizzled quickly as she is my sidekick and constant shadow. As a result, there is some separation anxiety...So during the day if crated she still whines at times, but mostly just takes it out on her bedding However, I would say as a pup (we got her at 11 weeks so a little older) that after the first week or so she was sleeping through. I felt comfortable limited the night outs as I would come to get her and she was still out cold and had no desire to get up. Since she destroyed 3 beds (numerous times since I resewed them), but never destroyed anything in the house that wasn't hers we decided to start leaving her uncrated in small doses during our absence and have found she handles that much better oddly enough. SO, every dog is different. Bella is a love bug..being away from us to any degree if it wasn't her idea is simply NO fun to her  |
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pixie bee
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| 07/17/2012 2:34 PM |
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Not to worry - you won't stifle anything. HAve you checked out NAVHDA? They are a great resource for hunting training. |
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"Time with my dogs clears my mind, renews my faith, and lets me see the world as it is. My only regret loving dogs as I do, is the misery of their early departure." Robert G. Wehle
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smatulewicz Michigan
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| 07/17/2012 2:41 PM |
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OH, I also wanted to comment on the exercise aspect. I think a lot of people get high energy dogs and think "oh my goodness I have to keep you busy all day long"... At his current age, he is going to puppy nap hard a good majority of the day anyway, but with age I'd suggest providing the level of exercise you anticipate to always be able to provide. I think we can sometimes underestimate their ability to be stable when activity is limited and overestimate their need for exercise...and pups who are provided with TONS from the get go come to get used to it and expect it more. I am constantly telling people who ask about her energy level that for Bella (and each to his own just as with everything) it is less about demanding to do something all day so much as it is when the need arises she could go all day for days. During those times, we often have to force her to stop to eat her breakfast, stop to have water, and stop to just take a rest here and there. But after, she crashes and crashes hard...and is content with lazy days in the house for a couple of days. |
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DoubleR Northeast FL
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| 07/17/2012 2:48 PM |
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Thanks to all for the advice and suggestions. I know we'll work through it together and it will be very rewarding.
I have checked out my local NAVHDA chapter as well as read quite a bit about them. Still have to get my hands on "The Green Book" and will soon. Unfortunately, I live in FL and they are not having training days in July/August because it's just so stinkin' hot. I will definitely take him out the first opportunity they have, which is in September.
Also, through some suggestions of several websites, as well as forums, I've purchased and read Joan Bailey's "How to Help Your Gundog Train Themselves". Also have her "How to Have the Best Trained Gundog" - but have only skimmed that one as it is more for an older puppy (6 months or so) and incorporates more advanced training techniques which will be utilized further down the road.
We're VERY excited to train him ourselves, and have already done quite a bit of work on "Come". We're impressed with how quickly he's learning this command as I know that it is probably tops on the "need to know" command list.
Also, sidenote, I don't want anyone to think he's a terror. He does, from reading lots of posts on here, what any GSP puppy does. Chews on toys mostly (the occasional couch leg for about 2 seconds before we can replace it with an acceptable alternative), romps around with our 8 year old pug, and just loves to run around and explore when we're outside. We're using a 50' check cord for the outside portion of his "Come" training and we're very impressed with how well he is doing, even though he is only 9 weeks old. I know he will grow up to be a wonderful dog. Just sometimes, as many others on here have talked about, the puppy stuff can be challenging!
Yesterday he did make us very very very proud when he rang his bell for the first time to go outside to potty. |
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DLord Holly Springs, NC
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| 07/17/2012 2:50 PM |
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DoubleR, I had two crates with Zoe, a regular wire crate in the kitchen and then a hard plastic travel one in my bedroom. The vet advised me to put one in the bedroom for at night and it helped a lot with the whining. A friend of mine suggested the cuddle pal to me which I bought at Petsmart or Petco and it helped a lot. It's got a little pocket on the back of it with velcro and you open it up and it has a little bean bag filled with corn husks that you microwave for 30 seconds and put in the kennel with them - I think the warmth is soothing to them.
http://www.amazon.com/Pet-Stages-Puppy-Cuddle-Pal/dp/B0006MU8WC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1342556952&sr=8-1&keywords=petstages+puppy+cuddle+pal
Smatulewicz - I had the same issue with both Archer & Zoe destroying dog beds and someone suggested to me that I take the bedding out and replace it with old sheets or towels. I did this and it works like a charm no more bed destruction! And it makes it very easy to wash! |
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Texas Belle Austin, TX
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| 07/18/2012 1:16 PM |
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| I didn't have time to read through all the posts, but what has worked for me for all of my puppies is to put the crate next to my bed where the pup can see, smell and hear me. I use a soft sided crate which allows the top to be opened, so I can also reach down and put my hand on the puppy to settle them down. You might also want to add one of your tshirts that you have worn. Remember that pup has gone from having mom and siblings to a strange place by himself. The only thing he has to cling to is you. So let him. He will out grow that very fast and then you can move the crate to where you want it to be. I have never had a problem moving my crates later. I also put a puppy sized stuff toy in the crate to for the puppy to snuggle up with. Sometimes a hot water bottle and/or an alarm clock ticking will also help. Patience. I don't let my puppies cry themselves to sleep and using the above method they usually quite whining in just a few days. A schedule/routine will also help. I wouldn't worry about the 4 hours or so as he will be able to handled that in maybe a week or two. |
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