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11/28/2012 12:53 PM  

Hi everyone, I'm really glad to have found this website.  It is a cornicopia of information!  I am really excited to be a part.

I searched through the forum, but couldn't find anything like this; I apologize if it has been addressed before.  Here's the dilemma:

My best friend was going to get a GSP pup (Cooper) for his 4 year old GSP as a playmate, because the other dog is older and "retired."  I did the research, and decided to go ahead and get one also (Scout), Cooper's brother.  My buddy picked him up and had him at his house for a week with Cooper, and his two older dogs.  They got along great.  We picked him up and brought him home Sunday, the 25th.

Unfortunately, I don't have other dogs I can crate him with, just cats.  So, I worked out something to be able to visit the pup on my lunch breaks.  He is alone for five hours in the morning and three in the afternoon.  He has not had any accidets whatsoever, except one too-rich puppy food dinner encounter.  No crate, bed, carpet accidets. 

But - I have to leave him alone, in a house by himself for a long time.  And when I put him in his crate he goes nuts.  I stood outside the house for 10 minutes, and he was baying and howling the whole time.  I can't let him run loose because I know he will tear everything up.  We've left him lots of work toys, peanut butter, etc, and I run him during lunch and in the morning.

I snuck in on him today at lunch and he was asleep, but as soon as he woke up he went crazy.  Of course, I let him out immediately, and he runs right over to me and cries.  He cries some the whole time I am with him at lunch, even if I hold him for 40 minutes!

At home, he's great.  We only crate him at dinner time, and he is whiney, but if he's tired he will nap.  He sleeps with me at night, which I don't mind at all.

Is this something I should worry about, or is he going to get through this? It breaks my heart to leave the boy alone, but there's not much I can do.  I know it's hard on him, getting torn away from his litter mates and left alone all day.  I try to tire him out, and pay a lot of attention to him.  I want him to be a good gun dog eventually, but I am concerned that he might have some anxiety issues.  I also need to be able to crate him reliably.

I can't stay home with him, I don't have much vacation time.  It was a very fast, uncomfortable transition for myself, the dog, and my sister who lives with me and cares for Scout as well.

Am I jumping the gun, him being only 8 weeks, or overreacting?

Any help is appreciated.

 Edited to fix errors.

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11/28/2012 1:16 PM  
being that young as long as you keep to a routine and stick to it he will get over it...

I don't think I would even worry about coming home at lunch as it seems to create more issues... when you do come home you need to make sure he is quiet before you let him out of the crate and then let him out and put him out to potty right away... no baby talk and greeting him in any way cuz this creates anxiety...

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11/28/2012 2:19 PM  
Don't worry (in the sense that there is something wrong with your pup as I know it is heart wrenching to hear them cry). Your pup is normal. He needs time to adjust to your routine. Just so you know, too, we also always heard you can NEVER leave a GSP uncrated despite age...and as Bella earned our trust we built up to leaving her at home uncrated and she does phenonmenally...and does much better out than in. That being said, she did have to get used to being crated as she was until about 10 months of age.

Couple of things that may have just read wrong, I'm not sure, but you mentioned when he sees you he goes crazy and that you then let him out immediately. If you want your pup to learn to get content with his crate, never let him out when whining. If you do, you have just positively reinforced that behavior. It feels cold, but you need to come home and go about your business for a few minutes rather than rushing right over to him..make no eye contact, do not speak in a high or excitable tone while he is in there. He will learn quickly that he needs to be calm and quiet before he can come out. I also NEVER let Bella dart out when I opened the door. She has to be in down position and not ready to bolt. I took her immediately outside for potty and once she was done and came in...I would then greet her so that my greeting and return was not at all associated with the crate. Don't make a fuss over leaving...try putting him in 10-15 minutes prior to needing to leave. He can still see you moving about the house and it will give him a little more time to come to terms with knowing he will be there for a bit and you're going to leave.

There's a recent thread (the meet lucy thread) with questions regarding crate training a pup with excellent advice. Read through that for some great ideas on how to get him to associate his crate with positive feelings.

Also, I suspect your pup is not whining during you being home for lunch out of sadness, he is probably asking for activity. Afternoons are when Bella starts to crave activity as I typically come home after my husband does for lunch, and I come home for the day since my mornings are earlier and take Bella to do something. I work seasonally so I am home with her for weeks at a time where she adjusts to who a different routine. When I change, it takes her about 2 - 3 weeks to fully adjust to me being back at work and lower key routine during the day. Again, I know it goes against what we feel we need to do, but don't hold your puppy when he is whining unnecessarily. You feel he is doing it because he is sad and that you need console him, but again, you are reinforcing the behavior. He is learning that whining gets a whole lot of attention from you, and dogs live for attention. Bella is a drama whiner (the cat wont' play, she can't find the toy she is looking for, the neighbor dogs are outside and she isn't...etc.). We don't make any eye contact with her when she is whining and no attention what so ever. She still will for a moment or two for her own satisfaction, but knows she won't get anything from us for it.

Give him a little bit of time, he'll be just fine and if you're able...get him together with his sibling since you know who has him. I'm sure they both would LOVE it.
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11/28/2012 2:23 PM  

Funny story too, just to make you feel better about your worrying, and that it is hard for us as people to ignore some things because it feels "cold". We were having friends over for a birthday party and I knew many would get to our place prior to us getting there because some of us opted for a movie beforehand. I told them to welcome themselves inside but that Bella would be in her crate (I asked them not to let her out because I knew she would need to potty right away and since we don't have a fence I didn't trust anyone to let her out to go potty) and asked them not to give her attention as that would be harder for her in her crate than being ignored. When we got to our house...ALL four of our friends that had arrived before us were sitting by Bella's crate talking to her and petting her through the bars.

*sigh* lol

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11/28/2012 6:00 PM  
Oh does your puppy have you trained. First, never let your puppy out of the crate unless he is quiet. It only reinforces the bad behavior. I would also recommend getting a DVD called crate games and work on training your pup to love the crate. I know smatulewicz said she could let her pup stay out of the crate at 10 months, but I would advise caution in this as allot depends on the dog. Males tend to take longer to mature and earn the trust. Finally, quit feeling guilty. You are doing a great job, and lots of folks have GSPs that are alone for 8 or so hours a day and the dogs do just fine. The key is the quality of the time not the quantity.good exercise and training go along way. Just remember these devil dogs can get you wrapped around their paws so easy. Have fun with your pup, be sure and post some pictures, and welcome to the site.

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11/28/2012 6:46 PM  
Yes, definitely dog by dog in terms of being uncrated or not. We built up slowly and she was a pup who never destroyed anything in the house that wasn't her toy. Now, two feather pillow corners did suffer the result of me going back to work at the time we were experimenting with not crating, but that was it lol. We also limited her access to the whole house. Now we don't because she has proven the times we accidentally left them open to not get into any trouble. I recommend getting your puppy used to the crate regardless if you think you'll try not crating in the future. The ability to handle a crate could always be useful again in the future.
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11/29/2012 4:38 AM  

Wow!

Thanks for all the help.  I have seen significant change in just one night.  I read most of these posts last night, and I started some kennel work with him.  I saw significant improvement in just a few tries.

I played with him in front of his crate, and then made him follow my hand with a treat in it.  Then I dropped it and when he went in I praised, and then moved in front.  I put a toy in his mouth and played with him for a few minutes.  Then I shut the door.  He knows sit pretty well, so when he started going bonkers I told him "SIT" and waited until he stopped whining, then I immediately opened the door.

I did this five or six times, and already saw the difference.  This morning before we left the house I did the same thing, and I waited to cover the crate until he sat and was quiet, and then I just left with no fuss.

I also ran him quite a ways this morning, and ignored his attempts to get me to pick him up so he would be tired.

I will keep working on it, and run him again at lunch time.  I guess I was overly concerned with separation causing psychological issues because I want him to be my gun dog.

It's been more than 15 years since I've had dogs, and I haven't been around puppies since I was about 10.  This is very different.

Now, I have to get him to start listening to my sister.  I can already see he plays a different game with her, and he's only been home for four days.

Thanks everyone, much appreicated!

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11/29/2012 7:11 AM  
Ever hear the expression "killing with kindness"?

You love your dog and he is bonding nicely with you and your sister.
Don't overdo things.

If he's to be a hunting companion, have a plan for this.
Every good plan has obedience,exposure and training.

Good luck
and maybe a picture or 2?


"Time with my dogs clears my mind, renews my faith, and lets me see the world as it is. My only regret loving dogs as I do, is the misery of their early departure." Robert G. Wehle
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11/29/2012 7:43 AM  

 

 

 

Scout is the one on the bottom of the two brothers in the sun.

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11/29/2012 8:10 AM  
nope

did you sign up for photobucket?


"Time with my dogs clears my mind, renews my faith, and lets me see the world as it is. My only regret loving dogs as I do, is the misery of their early departure." Robert G. Wehle
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11/29/2012 8:24 AM  

 Here's the link for posting photos.

www.shorthairs.net/GSPForum/tabid/220/forumid/2/postid/42164/view/topic/Default.aspx


Bev Quarles, the Pointer Sisters (Belle and Halo), the Outlaw GSP (Johnny Ringo) and the little Princess (Fauna)

Yellow Rose GSPs

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11/29/2012 1:47 PM  

Thanks for the help.  The pictures should be above.

He's gotten a little bit bigger.

Now, continuing with the situation:

I went out at lunch today, after working with him last night and this morning.  I ran him around the field for 20 minutes (we literally ran, there's no fenced area to run him right now). 

I then fed, watered, and took him to potty.  Then I played with him in front of his kennel, and inside of it.  Once he was done with his treats inside, he tried to squeeze by me, but I just kept playing with him.  I shut the door to the crate when he was distracted inside, and he immediately went crazy.  I told him "SIT" and he sat down, and I didn't open the door until he was quiet.  I did this five or six times.  He did really well while I was there, but even when I was in the other room he freaked.
 

When I finally had to leave, I put him inside his crate and didn't pull the blanket over it until he was quiet.  He was fine until I hit the door.  I stopped and put a recorder down, I wanted to see how long he goes on.  He sound like he was choking himself he was trying to cry so hard.

This is tough -  I have gone from wanting to find someone to sit him with their dog all day to wanting to get him to calm down.  There are some resources others have mentioned above that I am going to look into today, but nothing I read prepared me for this.  This is nothing like my cats - food, water, litterbox, pet pet, see you later.

I've been told over and over to stop worrying, and I trust the people on here as sound advice because of their dog experience, but...

*huff*

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11/29/2012 1:48 PM  
Ahh, what a doll! Glad you're seeing improvements. It's hard not to when you are committed to having a well rounded pup. They are smart and learn fast. They are sensitive, but I don't believe the issues were from exactly missing his brother so much as it is just learning to be alone in general. Dogs are pack animals. Being alone takes some getting used to.

Get your sister involved in training with your pup. Let her know what you do to work with him and have her do the same things. Consistency is key to having him listen to you both. If he is confused by who means what, well...confusion = bored GSP who is going to look at and listen to anything and everything but you (in my opinion anyway)
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11/29/2012 1:50 PM  

Just a note:

Everyone else's pictures on here of their GSP are absolutely awesome.  SUCH GORGEOUS DOGS.  I am really glad I have the little guy, and I am really excited about how good looking he will be.

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11/29/2012 2:02 PM  
Sorry I posted that before I read your most recent post. I wouldn't close the door when he is distracted. Let him see you close the door so he isn't blindsighted by having it open one second, and then looking up to being locked in. Are you putting him in with quite some time before you have to leave. For Bella, it really heightened her anxiety for me to put her in and then just go. If I gave her about 20 minutes (which I know, that's 20 more minutes stuck in the crate, right? Well...it's OK if it helps) and she pouted much less, but as a pup at your pup's age...she would cry after I left. Sometimes...I stayed at the door (ours is hidden from the crate, but close enough I could act like I was leaving but stayed at the door). When she started up, I would say in a drawn out calm voice "huuuuush". No eye contact, she couldn't see me, but she associated the sound with me still being around. I may have to do this a couple of times...but when she was calmed I would slip out the door and shut it quietly behind me. It helped.

It may also help to have your puppy get used to sleeping in his crate at night for now. You can change this later...but if you puppy learns to sleep well and be comfortable in his crate, it may make being in it during the day easier. Bella got bed privileges around 8 months or 9 months.

Hearing them crying that hard is very difficult. It will get easier for him (and you!) Hang in there.
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11/29/2012 2:07 PM  
it is natural for them to cry like mad at this age when crated and left alone...actually left alone period... they have been living in their pack this whole time with mom and siblings... this is a big change for them to learn that they are fine being alone... you need to just be strong and leave...

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11/30/2012 6:11 AM  

Thanks again for all the advice.

Last night was much better.  I worked with him for almost four hours, playing, walking, feeding, playing, training... in and out of the crate and outside.  No more accidents on the carpet, no more whining in the crate (while it was open).  We got some rawhide and enticed him with that, and I eventually got him comfortable with being in the crate.

I would throw the rawhide in the crate and say "Kennel up!"  He would go in and chew on his rawhide, and lay down.  When I moved, though, he would follow me.  I would tell him No, and then take the rawhide and throw it back in.  It took about 30 minutes, but he finally stayed in there any chewed on it while I went out of the room, and then out of the house.

Now, a while later I had to go outside and my sister was in the shower.  I crated him, and calmed him down, but by the time I was approaching the house again he was howling as loud as he could.  I went inside and ignored him at first, and when I was ready to let him out I told him "No.  Sit."  I start to open the cage, and if he starts whining I close it again.  If he puts his paw on the bars I close it again. I slowly open and say "Hold, Hold" until he is still, and then once it's open wide I say "OK!" and lots of praise, treats.

He runs straight to me though, and I want to dissuade this, so any advice here?

Last night he slept in his crate until about 2AM (I get up at 4am anyway).  We keep the heat really low, so when I woke up to pee again he woke up and cried a bit.  I calmed him down, but he was shivering, so I took him out after he was sitting and calm, and let him sleep with me.  I am going to buy a heating pad and wrap up the crate so this doesn't happen again. 

Also, this morning, when we went to get in the car he seemed to know right away.  Once we get to his crate where he stays during the day he started whining and getting fussy.  I tried to wear him out but when you only have 40 minutes it tough to wear him out fast enough.  It's almost like he forgets all the training we did the night before once we get to that house.  I played with him in and out of the crate again, but he didn't seem to retain anything we went through at home.  I might have to spend more time over there on some days to get him used to the place.

Anyway, I put him in, with some peanut butter and a new rawhide, and played with him in and out of the crate.  He wouldn't go in willingly like at home.  I use two different crates, and that might be the issue?

I finally got him in there and used the same commands to calm him down, taking him in and out of the crate a few times.  I finally just left, but I snuck back in and he was doing that choking-himself-whining again.

Getting better, but still tough.  Not tugging on the ol' heartstrings as hard anymore.

Thanks again for all the help.

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11/30/2012 6:48 AM  
I don't think you have to necessarily tire them out to put them in their crates... don't do anymore exercise than you are willing to give for the rest of the dogs life... just get a routine... as for him running to you as soon as he is let out that really isn't an issue... you just have to stay calm and not baby him and talk all baby talk and get him more excited... you can just bring him outside for a potty or sit quietly in a chair making sure he calms down...

a good crate exercise is getting them in the crate door closed and then you clean the room the crate is in, if they are ok with that then you move to another room but where they can still see you a bit or you come and go from another room to the room the crate is in... this will build up to them being in the crate and you being outside doing yard work coming and going from in side to outside...it is good to just come into the house and leave them in the crate for a bit even if they are crying... put your stuff away have a drink of water go use the bathroom then go to the crate tell him sit stay, open the door and then give the ok command for them to leave...then take them out to potty...

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11/30/2012 7:22 AM  

Thanks Splat.

Sounds like I am on the right track, and that this is normal doggie stuff.  I have to keep reminding myself that he is 9 weeks old.

But damn is he smart.  I think he is smarter than me, especially as far as manipulation.  You can't apply logic to doggie tricks, just experience from what I can tell.

A lot of the stuff we are working on, routines and things, are only interrupted by the cats.  But our inside-outside routine is great, he sits and won't jump for treats now.  Awesome at five days home.

BTW - I left my recorder on for 3.5 hrs in the afternoon yesterday, and it took him more than 20 minutes to finally calm down.  Normal?

Thanks!

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11/30/2012 7:34 AM  
I agree they are so cute that it is so easy to give in to them... I wouldn't think 20-30 minutes to be crazy long.... but then some might give up after 5 minutes... different personalities, yours is probably very determined so going the 20 minutes would seem ok...

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