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Splat Illinois (Northern)
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| 02/10/2011 7:34 AM |
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I suggested the stairs and door thing cuz I had been told about it when my friends were dealing with an ill mannered boston terrier they adopted... I have to say that in my family we have not gone to great measures to get the dogs to respect the kids, the dogs just do...I feed the dogs morning breakfast after I serve the kids theirs but I don't serve the kids first for any reason other than my kids get cranky if they don't eat first...on days when the kids sleep in my dogs don't and then they eat first...the dogs eat dinner around 6pm which is usually after we eat dinner and my kids do feed the dogs dinner and the reason for this is because the dogs are suppose to be for the kids and I am teaching my kids responsibility...the dogs are allowed on the couch and they sleep in bed with my kids, so no pack order there...also the stairs alot of time I let the dogs go first so they don't trip me up... I think alot of what you have to do to get respect from the dog depends on the dog it self cuz even though they might be the same breed and even from the same breeder or even have a common sire or dam each dog is different... I agree that I don't think dogs see us as another dog, but I do think they either know or learn to respect us and appreciate us as their caregiver or they don't...it is up to us to show them that we are their to care for them and they have to behave... I ride horses and I have had my horse since she was 4 and she will be 24 in March...she knows better than to test me, but when someone new rides her she isn't bad but she will cut corners and get lazy just to see how good the rider is....kinda like dogs they are testing the water to see what they can and can not get away with... |
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wisconsinative
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| 02/10/2011 7:52 AM |
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I always have had the kids go through the door first, this is something our initial trainer drilled in us. Maybe it doesn't have a pack order effect as much as reinforcing that Nothing In Life is Free? She must sit/stay until we free her. No stairs in my house thank goodness  |
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- Andrea Isa is our rescued GSP First time dog owner and all-the-time-mom to humans & Isa. |
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Max2 Oneonta NY
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| 02/10/2011 8:06 AM |
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| I only post things that have worked for me and I must say the door and stairway is one that I have used and do feel it works. I read that in a book someone gave me as a Christmas gift called: The Loved Dog by Tamar Geller. I think I tried a lot of this authors exercises with what I would call success. This might be a book to look at for someone new to or maybe a little rusty. Easy read and some good tips. |
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Phillyo118 UK
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| 02/10/2011 8:16 AM |
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I'm not having a go here just giving my thought's and opinions. I don't think there is any one hard and fast "right way to do things" with a dog. As you've said, they're all different, same as humans  |
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"From the dog's point of view, his master is an elongated and abnormally cunning dog."
"My goal in life is to be as good of a person my dog already thinks I am." |
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Splat Illinois (Northern)
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| 02/10/2011 8:36 AM |
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yeah I have not used it (the door and stair thing) but my friend's did and their dog really came around... I have not seen alot of dogs living together (2 top) but I have with horses...and the leader does always go first but it is more to scout and make sure it is safe...the horse leader does it to protect his heard and doesn't do it as a I am king I go first manner... Do dogs see it as a way the leader protects them or a way the leader is dominate over them? |
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Texas Belle Austin, TX
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| 02/10/2011 12:39 PM |
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| I think the key is the alpha pair are the leaders of the pack and responsible for the well being of the pack. When they venture out of the den, they are going hunting and the Alpha pair are leading the pack to the hunting ground in a safe manner. If that means protecting the pack from a predator then they will lead the pack in protecting, but remember wolves have many fewer predators than a horse does. So, the roles are a bit different. After all how many animals (besides humans) would attack a wolf unless cornered. |
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Bev Quarles, the Pointer Sisters (Belle and Halo), the Outlaw GSP (Johnny Ringo) and the little Princess (Fauna)
Yellow Rose GSPs
"A dog has the soul of a philosopher." - Plato |
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Splat Illinois (Northern)
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| 02/10/2011 1:52 PM |
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| that's why I wondered if dogs looks more to us as protector type leaders or just bossy leaders, LOL! |
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clicklbd SE PA
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| 02/10/2011 3:22 PM |
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Note this is NOT a new article, but it seriously brings into question the whole premise of dominance and alpha. VIN is the Veterinary Information Network, and is used by American Vets and Vet Techs (at least, I used it when I teched and went to school.) I personally think we don't know what dogs think; we can only guess. So it's best to use tools that have the least fallout in order to improve behavior. http://news.vin.com/VINNews.aspx?articleId=12230 |
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pixie bee
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| 02/10/2011 5:09 PM |
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This has got to be the dumbest thing I ever heard. There are people who believe dogs see us as dogs????? I read that article on the site posted earlier. Am I the only one who noticed arrogance, even anger in his articles? But, then again, I'm sure all my foolishness would be forgiven by the author if I buy his training gear. If the reader choose to believe his articles to be all fact, then the reader needs to do more research.The author has no issues atrempting to discredit others in an attepmt to make himself look factual. First sign he should be read with caution. Ever wonder why out of all the species it was a the wolf - a pack animal - who man turned into the dog?Dogs are pack oriented. Didn't you ever watch Ice Age? A pack is a family - doesn't matter if the species are varied. |
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"Time with my dogs clears my mind, renews my faith, and lets me see the world as it is. My only regret loving dogs as I do, is the misery of their early departure." Robert G. Wehle
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Texas Belle Austin, TX
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| 02/10/2011 5:25 PM |
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This is my personal opinion, but I do not equate alpha to dominance. The "alphas" in a dog pack are the leaders and in some cases are actually the quietest dogs in the pack. Think about it, the bullies are rarely the true leaders even in the human world, so why do we think the bullies or dominant dogs would be the leaders. In many cases, the dogs that are the bullies are actually the most uncomfortable in their position and are looking for guidance. When that guidance or leadership does not exist they try to fill the void in the only way they know how. Thus you get misbehavior like growling, biting, fear, etc. Once you introduce a true leader to a pack the rest of the pieces will fall into place. The article that clicklbd posted is a good article although there were some points I would question with regard to pack behavior. It is true that in many cases a wolf pack is made up of a family of wolves and that the lead male and female are the only ones that breed. However, when one of the two leaders dies there is a void left in the pack that has to be filled. Sometimes there is a lone wolf that no longer is a part of a pack that will try to take that spot and when that happens there is a battle. If the outsider wins (and I am not sure, but think it is most often a male), he becomes a part of the pack. I believe in most cases when the female dies another female is chosen from the pack. I also believe that if there is a strong male in the pack he will also jockey for the lead roll. In any case the vacuum has to be filled with either a pack animal or an outsider. I think pack dynamics are probably too complicated to be thoroughly discussed in a short article and as such that article might be a bit misleading. I would recommend The Dog's Mind by Bruce Fogle if there are folks interested in this discussion. I read this book a while back and I am thinking it is time to read it again. For the record, I am not a fan of Cesar Milan, but I do think he has brought an awareness of dogs and training that for the most part has had a positive impact. I also believe he has effectively raised awareness in an area where education is needed. I have watched his show a few times and have never seen him do things like an alpha roll or choke a dog. Maybe I just missed those episodes because I have only caught a few episodes, but somehow I don't think the television audience and especially the animal rights folks would have been silent had he been making a practice of negative training. |
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Bev Quarles, the Pointer Sisters (Belle and Halo), the Outlaw GSP (Johnny Ringo) and the little Princess (Fauna)
Yellow Rose GSPs
"A dog has the soul of a philosopher." - Plato |
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clicklbd SE PA
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| 02/10/2011 6:28 PM |
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Bef, I wish I could say he hadn't done anything negative on his show, but he has. The key thing he does is flooding, which is an absolute no-no for people much less dogs. Basically flooding is where you expose the subject (human or dog) to the thing it is afraid of and don't let it get away from the thing. You are taking control away from the subject and basically torturing them. Eventually, they will shut down (if you watch when he deals with fearful dogs, that's exactly what happens. They do the behavior because they aren't "home," not because they aren't afraid.) There are much better ways of managing fearful situations. HOWEVER, I do think that he does one good thing, and this will tick off my positive trainer friends. I think dogs do tend to respond better to confidence, because they are, by nature, opportunistic, and he does promote that. I am told there was an episode where he alpha rolled a dog. I did not see it, and all links to it are dead, so who knows. |
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Texas Belle Austin, TX
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| 02/10/2011 9:40 PM |
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| Patti - As I said I don't watch Cesar except when I happen to catch a show by accident. I would agree that flooding is dangerous. If Cesar does hold them there to desensitize he is removing a flight response which can have adverse results. I went through desensitizing my oldest shorthair to thunder and fireworks noise. It took many months and many hours of listening to tapes. I started by making a tape from a sound effects library. Then I brought my girl into the room with the tape player and turned the player on with no sound. I very slowly turned the sound up until I got the first glimmer of a reaction and then backed the sound down just a tad. Then while the tap was playing we played tug and retrieve and any other fun things I could think of. We gradually worked the sound up to where it was loud and she did not react. I was fairly successful in that she no longer freaks out by storms or fireworks, but she still does not like them. I guess the best description is she tolerates them now. True desensitization is a very slow process and it always takes into account the ability of the dog to flee. |
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Bev Quarles, the Pointer Sisters (Belle and Halo), the Outlaw GSP (Johnny Ringo) and the little Princess (Fauna)
Yellow Rose GSPs
"A dog has the soul of a philosopher." - Plato |
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Splat Illinois (Northern)
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| 02/11/2011 5:39 AM |
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I don't think dogs see us as another dog...our scent is different...but I do think that their need for a pack is always there and that is where we want that alpha position... I agree the leader/alpha roll should be more of a caregiver/protector and not a bully type... with the horses some people think that the horse that chases the other horses away from the food is the boss but it is just the bully...the boss is the one that is quiet and makes sure everyone has eaten... |
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Texas Belle Austin, TX
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| 02/11/2011 8:00 AM |
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| I agree that dogs don't see us as another dog, but I do believe they see us as a member of their pack and as such I want to be seen as the leader. |
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Bev Quarles, the Pointer Sisters (Belle and Halo), the Outlaw GSP (Johnny Ringo) and the little Princess (Fauna)
Yellow Rose GSPs
"A dog has the soul of a philosopher." - Plato |
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pixie bee
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| 02/11/2011 8:54 AM |
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This is from the article posted above: The dog who fails to come when called is not exhibiting an intention to establish dominance over the caller. Rather, dominance behavior is “when animals use aggression for scarce resources,” Yin says Yin obviously has no idea what the difference is between dominance and aggression. Can't use her as a reliable source on training or behavior. In the site posted earlier "The ORIGINAL Dog Listener" first says dogs are not pack animals and then in another article says they are. Which is it? I bet which ever article that supports his sales at the time. Cesan Milan has not choked dogs - they have choked themselves - in one eposode the dog had bitten the owners and Cesar, mauled him pretty bad. All he did was hold the leash and make sure the dog didn't get to him or anyone else. When dogs are tained all positive, which is impossible, but can be viewed as dogs who have not been exposed to pressures and learned how to turn it off, are the danger dogs. it's alright to train puppies this way, how difficult is it to control a puppy? Take this same puppy at 18months old and 70lbs then tell him to sit and he doesn't. You can A) pull out a treat or B) "force" him to do it in some way Most people will pull out a treat b/c they KNOW that dog will retaliate in some way. Dogs are not much different than people. Take a spoiled human for example - they have no idea how to deal with frustration. How do you think dogs not taught to deal with frustration deal with frustration? They get sent to the shelter. I'd like to see Victoria Stillwell offer food to a 150lb beast that wants to kill other dogs and has no problem biting humans. Let me know how that works. Being a leader is about being fair and decisive. |
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"Time with my dogs clears my mind, renews my faith, and lets me see the world as it is. My only regret loving dogs as I do, is the misery of their early departure." Robert G. Wehle
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Splat Illinois (Northern)
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| 02/11/2011 9:12 AM |
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I agree cuz in being a leader and keeping them animal safe you need to be able to train it to listen...if I had my dog out in a huge open field I would want an ecollar used to be safe...I am all for an equal balance of reward and punishment/force...there is a huge difference between force and abuse... I have got to agree that I can see the same things in dog and human behavior, like the spoiled kid...I always say you can tell how someone would raise their kids by how the have raised their pets...and vise versa, LOL! |
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clicklbd SE PA
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| 02/11/2011 9:20 AM |
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Francine, positive training isn't about just giving the dog a cookie. It's about controlling resources. Dog do occasionally experience frustration in positive training, but not to a level that they can't handle. However, you don't offer a cookie to a 150 pound aggressive dog. That's not really how it works. It's about changing the base emotional response of a dog who is fearful. Think of it this way...which is more likely to make you have ongoing positive association with snakes (or whatever you are most fearful of) -- chocolate or a big ole cattle prod? I have little guys currently, but I use them for training with big guys. A close friend of mine does a lot of aggression work (she's a pro trainer) and she and I had one of my little guys sitting under an akita-saint mix that was extremely small-dog aggressive after a lot of work, just using "cookies." It took time, but that big dog decided that little dogs were pretty good, and not as a snack. No choke collars. No physical force...obviously, the 135 pound owner would lose that battle! Yin is actually a pretty well-respected vet-behaviorist, and not new to the scene. What I have heard from her is that people misinterpret aggression for dominance, and dominance and "alpha" aren't concepts we should be worried about in training. Resource guarding can be addressed without ever worrying about if a dog is dominant or not. You seem to feel pretty frustrated, and I don't want to create something. I just have a different take on the concept of dominance. |
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pixie bee
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| 02/11/2011 10:46 AM |
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I'm not frustrated. This is entertaining for me. I don't think you have a different take on dominance than me. Where we may differ is our opinion of aggression. I seem to believe a prong collar and an e-collar are aggressive and abusive to you, I see them as kind,fair and useful tools. A good trainer can read a dog very well. I put pressure on my dogs,creating frustration, and they move to the next level. This is what a good trainer does. If I back down before my dog has had a chance to demonstrate what he can handle or not handle I would be a poor trainer. In the case of too much pressure, we work up to it and then advance. I don't understand why the choices for the snake would be chocolate or a shock? Is that what you think of trainers who do not train they way you prefer? The do or die method is not one I advocate, nor is it for the trainers I respect. Yes, cookies will eventually get a dog to accept a dog in close quarters. Thing is - what happens when that little dogie is off leash and running around barking? You could bring out a steak and it ain't gonna work. What usually happens with dog/dog aggression is that the dog is fearful of the approach of another dog - the meet and greet, the frustration of being held back. Once you get the dogs next to each other they are accepting. Yin is actually a pretty well-respected vet-behaviorist, and not new to the scene. What I have heard from her is that people misinterpret aggression for dominance, and dominance and "alpha" aren't concepts we should be worried about in training. Resource guarding can be addressed without ever worrying about if a dog is dominant or not. I agree,some do misinterpret aggression for dominance. Dominance and alpha are not concepts involved in training obedience- but for shaping the behavioral aspect. People control resources - this is dominance and alpha. Resource guarding by dogs is not about dominance or alpha - it is insecurity due to environmental causes or genetics. Dominance,alpha,force,pressure in and of themselves not not imply an amount. This is what separates the good from the bad and ugly. I do not understand the quote by Yin that I posted.Is that her definition of dominance - that is it aggression? Francine |
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"Time with my dogs clears my mind, renews my faith, and lets me see the world as it is. My only regret loving dogs as I do, is the misery of their early departure." Robert G. Wehle
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clicklbd SE PA
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| 02/11/2011 1:30 PM |
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I don't think ecollars are abuse. I think they have a fallout (and there is a very good human psych book on this topic "Coersion and it's fallout.") But the way the folks I know use them, it's not abuse. My philosophy of training is a little more complicated than chocolate or shocking the subject. That was a pretty simplified version. In terms of my dogs, we've practiced recalls so much that they can't help it. It's a habit. Of course, I seem to have a very enticing recall voice. My trainer laughs and tells everyone in the class to hold on to their puppies, because otherwise, I get my dog and someone else's when we practice recalls. I have called my rabbit killer off of rabbits mid-chase. It's rewarding to come to me, even if I don't have a cookie. I think what Yin says in general is that we shouldn't use dominance to label behavior. |
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Texas Belle Austin, TX
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| 02/11/2011 2:16 PM |
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Patti - I will be curious to see if you say the same about recalls if you get a hard driving GSP. It took 2 years of recall training and an ecollar to get my girl, Halo, to hear my recall when we were in an open field. She was perfect 100% in training class and had her CD in Obedience, but as soon as I turned her loose in an open area her prey drive kicked in and she was gone. She would eventually come back or I could send my older shorthair after her, but she just flat would shut out everything when I let her off leash. Once I conditioned her to the ecollar it took only one time and she realized I could reach out and touch her and I have had no problems since with her recall.
My other shorthairs have not given me the same problems, but I still reinforce the recall with the ecollar once they are solid in controlled situations and on a long line. I do allot of hiking in the high country of CO and NM, and the hill country of TX and my dogs range far and wide, so I want to know that when I call them they will return to me. I also want to be able to call them off of any critter. The ecollar allows me to get to that level in their training. I also believe that the ecollar is the only training tool that will get me as close as anyone can ever get to a 100% recall with my dogs. For me the ecollar is the extension of the leash in training as it allows me to reinforce a behavior at a long distance, and that extension is necessary because at some point the "call of the wild" will inevitably get the better of the dogs, at least for a while. |
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Bev Quarles, the Pointer Sisters (Belle and Halo), the Outlaw GSP (Johnny Ringo) and the little Princess (Fauna)
Yellow Rose GSPs
"A dog has the soul of a philosopher." - Plato |
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