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05/12/2009 2:51 PM  

I don't post here often and have seen some great advice here, so I thought I would add my 2 cents.

We have 2 chessies and Fred our GSP.  When our chessy had pups it was interesting to see how Fred delt with the rough and tumble chessie pups.  Fred is only 46 lbs so as the pups got bigger he had to let them know when enough rough housing was enough.  He would put their snouts in his mouth and made a little short ruff.  We noticed he was pinching the upper lips to the pups teeth, not hard but enough to let the pup feel it.  We began doing that ourselves, saying a sharp NO, and it worked very well.  We also obseved that when a pup got to rough with another pup that one would run away, as if to say 'I don't want to play if you are going to hurt.'  Even today our son's 1 1/2 year old 100 lb Chessie gets too rough with Fred he can put him in his place by grabbing the snout. 

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05/12/2009 3:00 PM  
will stick with the tongue pressure.
like the idea of bitter apple on hands (and other non-toys).
about 15 minutes ago he came up between my lets as I sat at my desk. put my hand down to pet and he started mouthing. I have him a "go to hell" kind of eye to eye stare. He was then putty. a fluke reaction? I didn't know but very interesting...I'm gather than pack leader / dominance has something to do with it.
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05/12/2009 3:04 PM  
Posted By pixie bee on 05/12/2009 1:24 PM

I am not talking about puppies running around with their mouths open.
I am talking about what the poster posted.
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'during the past 4 or 5 days he's mouthing has gotten marked more intense. he's not broken skin, but it is happening during almost each interaction / play session....'
 

'other stuff that's prompts a question and my be related from a personality perspetive.  he jumps up and tries to mouth at the same time...seems fairly agressive.  and then in the past few days HE is growling as he comes up / at me.  '
 

Did you read what I wrote?

yes which is why I quoted it. 

Anytime a puppy/dog approaches with teeth/open mouth it is for one reason, to dominate.
You are/were clearly wrong.  That's what happens when you speak in absolutes.  If the dog isn't growling it's not about domination and it's not aggression, it's normal play.  Raise some puppies and watch them grow up and you'll often see it's nothing more than "tag".  You "tag" your littermate and run hoping the littermate will then chase you down and tag you back.  That's the actions of two equals, not one trying to dominate the other.

Words like Always, Never, and Anytime back you into a hole from which the usual result is being wrong in terms of dog behavior and training.

 

If a dog becomes hand shy or there are issues with the come command because you hit your dog then that dog is of poor temperment. Again, I am not suggesting beating, a swift smack is all that is needed.


 

 

No it's usually because the trainer has temperament and dominance issues.  Anyone that can't train a dog without slapping them around isn't much of a trainer.  Anyone that can't distinguish between normal puppy behavior and "dominance issues" probably has some dominance issues of their own.

 


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05/12/2009 3:16 PM  

Fred has it EXACTLY right and that's why I do the things I suggested - grabbing the muzzle or pinning the puppy down to the ground by the neck until they stop struggling. It's what their mother and other adult dogs in the pack do, so it is understood by the pup as normal discipline. Staring a juvenile delinquent down is also a tool used by adult dogs. If you watch pack behavior carefully, you can learn a lot.

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05/12/2009 4:19 PM  
I've also seen 'The Lip Pinch' doled out by Dulcie on both Rogan and Anya as puppies. Speed and drama seemed to be at least as important as the pinch itself, and it was quite effective.

Rogan was a pup that could handle a smack at that age but I honestly hesitate to recommend it to anyone because I don't think he was 'normal' by a long shot, and there are other productive actions you can do even with a pup that tough anyway. Particularly if the pup is displaying some fear you'll want to make sure to turn right around after a correction with finding something positive for him to do instead. Teaching 'down' can be handy in that case, because after getting the vampire-pup off you can give the 'down' command immediately and reward that (it really doesn't have to be food every time either).

The whole idea is to take that drive and energy heading in a wrong direction and U-turn it into something working FOR both of you. The end result for dogs that are a handful personality-wise is creating a focused opportunist that just drools to get the next task assigned. However... to be honest your pup sounds pretty normal for 10 weeks old. IMO they'll cycle through some alternating hellion/fear behaviors even if neither of those traits surfaces as the overriding trait in the adult dog's personality. They are extraordinarily malleable between the ears at this stage, so my advice is to nip the stuff you don't want to see and make sure you give pup plenty of opportunities to have the good stuff reinforced.

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05/12/2009 5:09 PM  
my advice is to nip the stuff you don't want to see and make sure you give pup plenty of opportunities to have the good stuff reinforced.


I soooo agree!

Also, it's interesting watching how Shiraz (who is 4.5 years and 50 lbs) can control Bo (who is 2 years and 70 lbs). Normally it's just a look but if he's not paying attention she'll grab his snout in her mouth until he comes down. No blood -- but it's definitely a listen to me reaction.

I did a lot of holding Bo's snout closed and staring him in the eyes when he was little. Once he got over a certain size, though, this was no longer practical.

To the OP: hang in there ... it DOES get better. We went through the puppy stage as my FIL was dying of terminal cancer. Given the stress of that period of our lives, I'm surprised we all came out of it OK.

Also, if you know of an older female in the area (preferably one who has had puppies) introduce your little fella to her and that may also help teach him some manners (of course, not until he's had his second set of shots).

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05/12/2009 5:20 PM  
first off, 'anytime' is not an absolute.I did not use the words 'always' or 'never'.
Second, the puppy is growling and the poster's own words are that the pup seems aggressive.
Third,I can't see where you come up with a trainer that has temperment and dominance issues or 'slapping them around' issues. Any of the methods suggested could be seen as a trainer temperment and dominance issue.
My method may not sound politically correct, but it is no worse then any of the other methods suggested. I have given a puppy a slap across the muzzle and it has worked, the first time.


I really don't want to see this thread go the way of the GDF ='grabbig my wrist' thread.


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05/12/2009 6:57 PM  
Posted By pixie bee on 05/12/2009 5:20 PM
...My method may not sound politically correct, but it is no worse then any of the other methods suggested. I have given a puppy a slap across the muzzle and it has worked, the first time....

I've used this approach before and had it work also, so I'm not at all opposed to getting the point across once by whatever means necessary and getting it over with. In fact I'm vastly less comfortable with the drawn-out nagging methodologies some people claim as preferable to a rare but stern physical correction... but to each their own.

The problem with recommending this to someone you've never met over the internet is that people's explinations and interpretations of what they're seeing is often WAY different than how I would boil it out. Just spend an afternoon watching The Dog Whisperer and you'll see all kinds of bizarre conclusions people come up with to explain (and often justify) their dog's behavior.

This thread is a more subtle example... I can't really tell from the description if this is just a 10 week old GSP pup being typically rambunctious or a 10 week old GSP pup starting to show attitude. This person has listed some things that they've tried with various degrees of success, but I can't tell if they're done these things overly harshly or loaded with uncertainty or quickly or slowly or how consistantly. And we haven't even touched on if there's someone else in the house that's undermining everything the poster is trying to do by letting it get away with too much.

I suspect that your intuition and timing is very good, and... no offense intended.... you obviously don't have issues being assertive. :) A person like you would probably be successful using a wide variety of tactics which may or may not work for someone else without all your skills.


Megan
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05/12/2009 8:10 PM  

I think the most important thing you can do is to be consistent and persistent.  At this point you have allot of options.  Try them and see what works for you.  Just remember it is consistency and persistence that will make it ultimately pay off. 

As for a timeline, well there isn't one.  Each dog is different and matures at a different rate.  So far, I have had lots of dogs in my lifetime and no two have been alike.

Sounds like you are on the right track, just keep on doing what your doing and you will have a nice dog.


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05/12/2009 8:57 PM  
OP here. I'm pretty sure everything is "normal". or within the range of normal.
Got some bitter apple today. Me like-y...pup NO like-y.
I'm open to all methods. will make up my mind based on what I'm comfortable with and based upon the opinion so the methods. Its fun to hear about it all.
I may be way off when I say he's been "aggressive". means one thing to one person and another to someone else.
thanks for all the encouragement.
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05/12/2009 9:21 PM  
Posted By pixie bee on 05/12/2009 5:20 PM
first off, 'anytime' is not an absolute.I did not use the words 'always' or 'never'.

 

Sorry I see the problem now with our misunderstanding.  I type and read in english.  In english anytime is synonomous with every-time which of course is an absolute.

www.thesaurus.com

Main Entry: anytime
Part of Speech: noun
Definition: unspecified moment, period
Synonyms: at all, at any moment, at one's convenience, every-time, no matter when, when one will, whenever

It usually takes more than two weeks to train eight week old puppies out of natural, normal behaviors.  That is why patience and persistance are in order, rather than losing one's temper and slapping a little puppy around.  You certainly may get the job done, but you risk creating problems for the future.

To the Original poster. 

I always find it best to start out at the low end of pressure/force on corrections and increase over time when milder methods are not working.  I try and avoid training things in (like hand shyness and a fear of coming to  you) that will create problems later down the road.

You have gotten some very good advice from several people here and I wish you luck.  Let us know how it goes.  All the best. CR


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05/13/2009 5:42 AM  
'I'm type and read in english. '

Why state the obvious?


An unspecified moment in time is not an absolute.

Francine


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05/13/2009 6:23 AM  
When puppies come to our home they are taken away from their 'dog lives' and now have to learn manners as humans define it. The puppies are accustom to rough housing,which includes tubling,tackling,growling,biting and pushing one's 'weight' around. The animal world demands the survival of the fitest. When a puppy displays the behavior of the OP's puppy it is because this puppy is still living in the 'dog world' where this is acceptable.In the puppy's world they approach each other with open mouths and touch with their open mouths with their teeth to say one thing. "I'm gonna show you I can take you down'.
Maybe they can't but that is the intent. It all looks like fun,cute,harmless rastling, and on a level it is, but to the puppy it means much more. It is a way to seek and achieve status.
Our cute little puppys are seeking to achieve status when they come to our homes.

Francine


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05/13/2009 9:15 AM  
Some interesting thoughts all around...I find myself agreeing with everyone, oh my!

I still think it takes more than two weeks to get a puppy to behave the way we want it to. Some puppies come around faster than others. Some take longer than others. I have had representatives of each.

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Francine, I think it's supposed to say "I type and read in English."

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05/13/2009 11:51 AM  
When puppies come to our home they are taken away from their 'dog lives' and now have to learn manners as humans define it.
Yep, and you don't have to slap an eight or ten week old puppy around to accomplish this. 

The animal world demands the survival of the fitest.
No need to be so melodramatic, this is not about life and death.  They play the same games with each other AND with their mother until the mother establishes that she's had enough and she manages to do so without biting their little heads off or harming them.  As the pups get older she becomes less and less tolerant of such rough play.  She does not react the same to it, nor as forcefully at three weeks as she will at eight weeks unless she's got temperament issues herself.

Let me ask you this.  How many puppies have you raised in a group setting (with multiple siblings or similar aged pups from different breedings) to six months of age?

How often do they kill one another?

This is not about life and death it's about training an animal who at best has the equivalent mentality of a severely mentally challenged 3yo child.  Again, anyone who can't get the desired results by out thinking such a creature and without smacking them around needs to examine their own training practices and temperament.

Patience, persistance, and constistency are the best ways to train a puppy out of normal puppy behaviors you find unacceptable.

Losing one's temper and over reacting will virtually always do more harm than good.

 


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05/13/2009 12:00 PM  
I am sure I have cleared up any misunderstanding regarding my comments.
I ask that you drop this constant barrage on my comments.

thank you,


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05/13/2009 1:04 PM  
OP here, just an update. should that smack be with an closed fist? ...cuz I think he lost a couple of teeth, but I can't seem to find them...maybe he swallowed them. when do adult teeth come in?

Whoa, don't call PETA...I'm kidding. I've not struck him. Just offering a moment of levity with an attempt at humor. I'm using a good hard "you go straight to hell" stare and as of this AM some bitter apple...progress with both.

I'm fine with responding physically roughly...it's got to be similar to my reaction to his constant back and forth under my feet when we walk afield...don't want that when he's older... so without kicking I will effectively walk through him (making my stride a nudge) so that he falls and doesn't enjoy...a few of those and he avoids weaving btwn my legs for the rest of that walk.
Later!

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05/13/2009 1:08 PM  
Posted By pixie bee on 05/13/2009 12:00 PM
I am sure I have cleared up any misunderstanding regarding my comments.
I ask that you drop this constant barrage on my comments.

thank you,
 

Ask all you like.  Don't post though if you aren't willing to have your suggestions challenged.  It's nothing personal, anytime (meaning every time, whenever, always) I see someone giving advice I feel is bad, wrong, or may cause harm I will point it out. You do so frequently.

All I care about on a topic such as this is helping people avoid making mistakes that will cost them and their dogs in the future.


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05/13/2009 1:49 PM  
NO! Don't punch. A smack, to get their attention and only once is necessary. It is across the muzzle and not on top,maybe the word 'pop' would describe it better.I have done this before and puppies get the message the first time, which is why I like the method. I have used it on puppies like yours who just don't seem to understand the other methods. It's as tho the puppy doesn't relate the crime to the punishment and even worse think the other methods are a game.
Most puppies are bootlickers at this age. I think your method is okay but it doesn't build confidence or the desire to range more. Have you tried bringing a ball or something for him to retrieve? Something that will give him a reason to leave your side?



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05/13/2009 1:56 PM  
Now come on...did you not read my 2nd paragraph?
Thanks again to all and to all a good night!
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